In~tention

We're settling into new routines and getting to know each other. We've been nesting for a week, helping Finn get to know us and his new home. We ventured out for a quick playground visit today, which was fun but also seemed to overwhelm him a bit, though he loved the swing. We'll keep him mostly at home for another few days as he's had so much change in his little life and needs to feels secure and stable. He's settling in pretty well I think. He seems to feel comfortable with us and definitely wants me when he's upset and needs soothing. He's exploring the house more vigorously every day. My dad came by today and installed a gate on our stairs so he doesn't take any tumbles. Finn is a cheerful fellow and loves his sister - pulling hair and squealing. He looks so much like she did as a baby, though his personality is different. He is quite happy playing and exploring on his own, while Amelia really wanted to be with me all the time. He's also not as...

Our bags are full to bursting, our kids are worn out, and we're heading home. This has been an amazing trip in so many ways. The Korean people we have met in our travels have been so kind and generous, welcoming us, and have given Amelia a sense of pride in her heritage. There have been many, many gifts, incredible food, and she will come home with so many memories. We spent the day yesterday at the Lotus Lantern festival which was so rich. It is the celebration of the birth of Buddha and Amelia painted and made traditional lantern boxes, saw singing and dancing and traditional costumes. It was wonderful and exhausting and I was overwhelmed by the incredible sense of connection. There are many more stories to tell, but they will have to wait as we fly home in a few hours. When we're home I'll have more time to post photos and stories of the trip. Though I am ready to settle our kids back into a routine, I look so forward to coming back here with them soon to explore this am...

Finn is here with us and we are so happy to all be together finally. He had one big cry session when we first came back to the apartment but since then has settled in very well. He loves Amelia and wants to be wherever she is. He seems very content and happy and is very big. Between his belly rolls and his leg rolls you can't find his diaper to undo it if he's sitting. Mama's gonna get a workout! When he's squirmy it's all I can do to hang on to him. Amelia has been great with him and only a little jealous at bedtime. We're all tired but happy. The foster mother gave us all his clothes (which is good 'cause I'm pretty sure most of the ones I brought will be too small) so we're off to buy another suitcase to pack them in tomorrow. We're having a great time here in Seoul - saw the changing of the guard today at a palace (totally by chance) and are hoping to do some sightseeing tomorrow if we can carry Finn that far. We're looking forward to bei...

Yesterday's adventure was a trip to Caribbean Bay water park - the largest in the world. Getting there involved a subway ride (with a transfer) and a connection to a bus to another town. A bit of a challenge since all the road signs, etc. are in Hangul. It makes it hard to figure out which way to walk down the street. We were very proud of ourselves to figure it all out, get on the right bus going the right direction and make it to our destination and home again with no mix ups - we're ready for the Amazing Race! Here's Amelia showing off the entrance way! It really was an amazing place - waterslides, pools, hot springs, a 'miracle spa', a winding ri ver to float from pool to hot tub. We spent almost 5 hours in the water and Amelia was in heaven. Her favourite part was a huge waterslide that we rode a raft up a conveyer belt and then hurtled down a dark chute. It was super fun! Second highlight was the spray park with a giant skull that filled with water and then du...

How to describe the moment when you first lay eyes on your child? It's indescribable really - a moment that is forever in my memory. The elevator door opened and... there he is! Looking at me expectantly as though waiting to see how I might respond. I want to wrap my arms around hime, but he's just over 8 months, so I know reaching for him may provoke fright more than anything, so I wait while we go inside. We exchange polite greetings with his foster mother and foster father, who are very sweet and incredibly gracious hosts. They obviously care for him very much and I can see that this will be a difficult time for them to let him go. Eventually he crawls over to explore Amelia and she squirms with a combination of excitement and overwhelm at being the first to have contact with him. It is all I can do to resist picking him up, but he does crawl up to say hello then off to play. My patience is finally rewarded as he lets me pick him up and hold him, play with him and feed him a...

More tomorrow when the jet lag and exhaustion is slept away...

It's 5:30 am here, and Amelia has been up since 2. We've taken shifts to try to get a bit of sleep so we aren't completely haggard when we go to meet Finn later today. Amelia is too excited to sleep - she wants to go meet him NOW. She travelled really well but has only slept a about an hour on the plane and a bit on the bus ride into Seoul. She's sitting here with me and wants me to be sure to tell you she was airsick and threw up just as we landed. She was exhausted and crashed about 7 pm but was up and hungry at 2 and has been going strong ever since. We expect another crash anytime - hopefully not in the middle of the visit. It's an incredibly long journey to get here (3 hrs. advance at the airport, 11.5 hr flight, customs, baggage, 1 hr. bus ride and finally a very long 3 block hike up to the guesthouse), but it felt great to arrive in the daylight and feel like we knew where we were going. The adoption agency here has a guesthouse that we are staying in. It...